READING CAN MAKE YOU SUCCESSFUL

Reading can enhance your life. Studies show that the most successful people are the ones who read. We can learn a lot by picking up a magazine, a book, or a newspaper. I think it's great to be able to talk to others about what you read, too. Reading promotes conversation, intelligence, and knowledge. So, what are you waiting for?

I think everyone has a story to tell, and we should. For many years, I got away from writing fiction, but I have had a great time writing my first novel as an adult. Changing real-life situations into fiction helps heal the heart.

What can I say about Life? Mine has been tough at times, but I'm grateful that God has given me mercy, grace, and love. I love my life and the family I've been blessed with.

Saturday, July 18, 2015

The First Vacation in 10 Years



We work hard every day, take care of our families, and some of us cannot afford to travel. It’s not that we don’t want to go because there is sometimes I would like nothing more than to put my family in our car and drive far, far away. But Jim being a teacher, we don’t always have extra money. We can’t take the money that’s meant for food, utilities, car payments, etc. to go on a vacation.

We had not, as a family, been back to see our family in Idaho for exactly 10 years this summer. 10 years!

But this summer – Ah, yes, this summer was different for our family!

Our oldest son got married last week in Idaho, and we decided that we were going. The drive from Texas was about 1700 miles… a long drive, for sure, but it was so worth it. And my bosses let me off for the week with short notice. What a blessing!

Our oldest kids couldn’t go with us, so it was just us and the younger three.

The first day, we drove to Farmington, New Mexico and stayed in the Holiday Inn Express there. It was a very nice hotel, great pool, and an interesting restaurant called Blake’s Lotaburger was located in the parking lot. We were eating hamburgers at 10:00 mountain time, 11:00pm central time, our normal time zone. Of course, vacation time is different than our “normal” time.

 

 





It seems every time we leave Texas, my allergies kick up, and this time was no different. I think I took Excedrin Migraine almost every day we were gone.

 

Our second day, we drove through the scenic areas of NM, CO, UT and ID. The mountains were crazy-cool, the Indian Reservation areas were – well, there are no words. 




We made it to Jim’s brother’s house around 10:30pm. When we drove into the wrong driveway, he was sitting outside laughing at us. It was so funny!

My mother-in-law has Alzheimer’s, and she is in a very nice home. Seeing her was our first mission on our first day in Idaho. 

 

And we also had to visit Taco Time. If you haven’t been there before, make sure you do it!

I won’t go through and tell every single thing we did, but I will say this: We had a wonderful time! The family took time out of their normal schedules to hang out with us and make sure that we had a good time.



We have some friends we met when we lived in Oklahoma, 20+ years ago. How strange is it that of all the cities in all the states - they would move to the same town Jim's family lives in? It was awesome to see them, too!

 

 

We were able to spend time with Connor and Krista at their house, too. It was great meeting her for the first time and getting to know her. She's our daughter-in-love now!




Connor and Krista were married on Saturday in a field in rural Idaho. It was simple and beautiful, and Jim was asked to do part of the ceremony. We hated to leave, but we knew we had to get home.

 

 
It was hard to say goodbye to these people we love. We are hoping that 10 years doesn't have to pass for us to see them again.

 

So, we drove straight through to Texas this time.

I am the usual driver because I get carsickness. When it came to a point where I just couldn’t go any longer, Jim took over. There wasn’t really a time where both of us couldn’t go on, so that was great. And we went home straight freeway – Boise to Salt Lake City to Cheyenne to Denver to Wichita. And that’s where we met up with my parents and sister for lunch. We spent a couple of hours with them, and then we started the drive home back to north Texas. When we were getting close to the border, it seemed it was taking FOREVER. But then we were in our house, and when we hit our bed… Ahhhh… You never know how much you appreciate your bed until you try to sleep in a car and only manage a couple of hours of sleep in 36 hours.

I slept almost 11 hours straight and hardly moved at all.

And then it was over.

I have to say, though, it was just marvelous. My desire to get in the car and drive away is gone, and we have these fantastic memories to last forever.

The whole trip cost about $1,000. I thought it would be so much more than that, but when you take food in your car, and you can make PB&J sandwiches driving down the highway instead of eating out constantly, it can really save you money.

I’ve had a new attitude this week, although I was exhausted the first few days. The word “grateful” describes how I feel.